Putting Out the Fire with Gasoline...

[S.T. _I Made It!]

Gabby!! I haven't seen you in a long time, or I didn't realize you were still posting. glad to see you and hope you are well!

B, I totally agree that you should never ask what is wrong. until he is a stable person with you, hopefully someday in the near future.

Well, because of his comment about keeping her full-time, That would be my thought, that if he is planning something, that is what it is. However, continue writing everything down like SO2 does, even write down that H refused to take K to class and you have to do it. Be prepared like FG said.

At times I wonder if this is not what you really think. Lemme just say if you are living your life with "this" on your mind.. we might be "here" a long time. You have the power to put "this" behind you. "This" takes me back to.. "Forgiveness is a gift you give yourself." Why would someone say that? Why would I be pointing it out here? What can you do to.. Forgive?

B, to be honest, I was thinking the same thing. it's not like you want HIM, but you want that security, or that comfort and persona that you are WITH him. I know you don't want that life, and don't think that their life is wonderful because we all know it sucks. why do you think she's complaining and he's asking you for sex, STILL! that just boggles me.

Soooo, now what are you going to do. Let them wallow in their life, and YOU take charge of yours.