Quote: Even though your H never did that and you'd like him too. Maybe you could say, "sometimes I wish you would come up behind me and give me a hug, it would mean so much to me!"
deb,
h is one of those strange men that if you ask for what you want you're not likely to get it...at least not right away..he kinda likes to make you wait so that it seems like it's his idea..no matter what it is. Thing is it's awfully hard to be patient and not ask again next week when what you asked for last week still isn't happening..but eventually...
Quote: My H did use to come up behind me and hug me, nibble on my neck, occasionally. I wish now I would have praised him for doing it! I miss that! I will NEVER take him for granted again and will learn if you want something to continue you must show your S that you appreciate it! I'm starting to do that now, praise for good behavior will get you more of it! I just wish H would do more so I could tell him!
what helped me was to realize some of the things that h was/is doing and acknowledge and appreaciate them even if they aren't in my love language.
be more like him and perhaps he'll be inclined to be a bit more like me???
Quote: Would hate to see you go from this BB, I'm not even in piecing yet, but that is one of my goals!
been on this bb for an awfully long time...most of those that were posting when I arived have since left and I have seen several cycles of new faces come and go as well. I'll probably never leave for good but I will start posting less and less as is some are poking fun at the number of posts I have.
