Remember you and I are in the same situation. H still living at home. We see everything they do, and because of that we analyze constantly. At least I do. We need to remember to keep our eyes looking up, and not on the circumstance. It's hard I know. And because they live at home, the urge is there to snoop. I did it because I was looking for a sign that they had broke up. And more often than not, I would find something that I wished I had never seen. Mostly ow love notes to H, or receipts of things he bought her or places they went. I finally made up my mind to stay far away from all of it. And, if that wasn't enough, his cell would vibrate, he would look at it, and text back. Right in front of me. Like he forgot he was married! I am starting ( and hoping ) to think that she is becoming controling and desperate. And through it all, I have continued to be the bigger person, and give her nothing she can say about me. Oh sure, she probably wonders why I haven't moved out of my house yet, that I'm being stubborn. And, she probably tells H that. Every so often she probably asks what's going on with the D, why is it taking so long. I hope she gets real controling, and H starts seeing her for what she really is.
Ok,I'm done venting now!
Did you read Serenity's poem, " The Courage To Let Go" ? If not, read it. You will be blessed by it.
