Thanks yoyo & nocode..yep you are right.. and as for you OT.. Yep you are right also..The problem is that in the past when ever I made a "pass" or said anything remotely sexual to my wife she would get "pissed" I mean even if a friend said the same thing to her she would laugh but me...I think it was her self defense against letting things "happen" between us. But now I think she is ready. And yes you are right OT "If you are willing to view other women as sexual beings, pursue them, fantasize about them, flirt with them, and presumably before too long try to seduce them and demonstrate your passion for them, then why won't you do this for your wife? " Dr Love
And if I claim to be a wise man, well It surely means that I don't know
