I ordered "Light Her Fire" last week, and I'm waiting on it to arrive. I picked up "No More Mr. Nice Guy" tonight and can't wait to get started on it.
I read "The Five Love Languages" a month or two ago, and I think my W's LL is acts of service.
As for jolting our W's back to us, I think you are right. I have read a good many of Gucci's posts. My C and I even discussed this today - that if W does not bring up R, I may have to before my feelings for her are gone. Otherwise, I may be the one leaving.
And another similarity - we just came back last week from a mini vacation to Disney with the kids.
I have also wondered if W would have been willing ot pull the trigger on leaving. I think she would have, but I also did not (and don't) believe she had convinced herself I could not change.
Another thing I talked to C about today was never allowing my M to get routine or boring again. That means dating - new restaurants, new experiences, and time just for us.
I am happy to hear youur sitch appears to be headed in the right direction.
