So the WAW is still coming over daily to hang out with and watch the kids. Occassionally I am seeing something new gone, not a big deal because it is stuff she has a right to, but, it is still annoying to see a new empty spot somewhere when you're not expecting it. So I call her and jokingly ask her to talk to me before removing anything else from the home. She blows. I am now an A'hole again, won't let her have anything, even though I have 4 of whatever. I am calm, and joking about it, telling her, look, its not that you took it, it's that you took it without talking to me when you have taken everything that you intended to take already. Just venting.
Rearrange the furniture, make a man-cave, paint, move pictures. Make the house yours let her see you moving on. Play some new music, make plans on a calendar she can see, leave phone #s around, have a open bottle of wine in the fridge. Get mysterious.
M22,H45,W45 S21/18D12 Retain faith that you will prevail in the end, regardless of the difficulties and at the same time confront the most brutal facts of your current reality, whatever they might be.
To elaborate on that she showed up at the bar I was at last night a d there were some girls hitting on me. And she said she was jealous about the interaction. Of course she was there with OM, and that shouldn't be a problem should it. I almost got arrested over that one when he got into my face. Guess he wanted to see bow tough I could be. I was the one who didn't end up leaving.
