K4D Rising #4

[25yearsmlc]

What about the school counselor? School starts in a week and a half. Or do they need someone above that level?

Kevin

Hard to believe you asked this. I just said "let the experts, the c's tell you who and what the girls need", and just get it done for them. Especially if your wife IS filing, you need to do this and not just for appearance' sake.

And for the record the school c's are NOT trained to treat your children. Their assessment tools are just that. We, including you, already know that your d's have sent you many signals/red flares of their pain yet still, you have not done anything but make a phone call, or so you claim. No follow up despite the many many promises...

Again, you are trying to take the easy route for YOU. Cheapest, or fastest, the route requiring the least action from you. And then you'll post about how you are "working on it...called and they haven't returned the call...the guy was out....too young....you forgot, were too tired, thought you'd do it later, they seemed better, blah blah blah."

It has been months since you were or should have been aware of how much pain they are in and how much they need professional help, and all you did was make a phone call...Imagine someone telling you your d's have a strange fever and waiting this long to do anything.....and here we are at the end of the summer, the BEST TIME for them to have gotten help for the upcoming changes that are yet to come, (are they going to new schools? YES. Oh and now for the first time they won't be together....sure Kevin, no rush, take your time, see how you feel about it all....) and you ask us about waiting for the school to....DO IT? Say it? FORCE IT??

I won't ever stop posting to you b/c you relapse. How could I? There but for the Grace of God, go I.

But this purposeful neglect of your children, which you CAN control, and the way you still ignore great advice from so many (not all my advice is great or always right, but a lot of what people take the time to post to you is,) and the amnesia you pretend to have, or when you don't even acknowledge getting a post or thinking about what they say, and do the exact thing so many warn you not to do, THAT frustrates me no end. (As does the pathological obsession you have with your wife)

I have not "lurked" here, but I have actively supported and posted to you several times a week, since you registered here many months ago. That's a lot. I began with the gentlest supportive methods available and the most encouragement I could. But that didn't work for long as far as I can tell. The 2 x 4's are not enjoyable to write or read and they don't get far with you either.

Tomato, I don't know what you are trying to say or imply, but I've done my best.

K4, if you won't do anything else, and maybe you won't, at least do right by your daughters. Take them to a c, and then follow that c's advice.

j-