In the times when I start losing attraction again, I ramp up the flirting even when I don't feel like it.
It throws her off, but she hasn't had a negative reaction to it.
That's a good idea. I will have to try it.
I wonder about this myself at times, I suck at flirting for sure, but I need to get past that.
Funny you guys bring this up tonight, I was standing next to my W tonight in the kitchen and had this same thought, so I lightly brushed her shoulder with my hand and picked up some of her hair and smelled it, and told her her hair smelled great.
She didn't flinch, or turn around and punch me out, so that must be a plus..
GIMA, keep at it man, your words and thoughts have helped me out.
It ain't over until it's over!
M: 41 STBXW: 41 D: 9 Bomb: 4/26/09
On board the D train now..
"Suffering is when we try to change what we cannot."