Kimmie, Im not sure, I was so angry. I dont want to be his friend I thought, friends dont do things like that. I think that thats where processing your emotions and forgiveness comes in. And I think thats why everyone says time is your friend.
How does she propose to start spending more time with the kids? Do you think that this could be a child support issue? Do you think that she really wants to see them more often? I know that you said she ignores them, but does she actually seem to miss them?
I guess I gave the wrong finger to the wrong man...