Have you even tried to detach before? I don't think you did. You don't detach because you are forced to, you detach because you want to.
Do you still want your marriage?
I have tried and suceeded at detachment b4 and it was not forced per se. I did it as a means to survive the death spiral that ocurred a year ago. It was a revealing breakthrough. I remember it well as anyone does who finally experiences that. I have learned a bunch from all of this chaos and most of that may still be ahead of me. There for sure has been some erosion to that detachment. But as soon as I manage to find the horse maybe it will be simultaneous to when I wil be prepared to mount it.
