Since our S, my STBXH has slid further down the road of alcoholism, depression, and self-destructive spending. Luckily, at this point, I don't have much contact with him. But in the first few months I got all the usual suspects.
"If we were meant to be together, I wouldn't have to TELL you, you'd know why I wasn't happy." (apparently I shouldn't have believed him when he told me it was school/work/money that was making him unhappy)
"We can always get a divorce and remarry later" (uh....yeah, that sounds great....not)
"I don't believe in D either, but it's the only way I can be happy" (in response to him screaming at me about why I wouldn't sign the dam D papers and me saying "I don't believe in D")
"I didn't mean for it to happen it just did" (the PA)
"I've been working on this for the last 2 years. I was trying to make things better by acting like nothing was wrong." (Well, ya had me fooled! Thanks for telling me there was a problem.)
Michelle - Proud DR Rockette S: 28JUL07, D'd: 29OCT09 http://tinyurl.com/27j9qo2