I know i have got to get my set back, and stop contact. and yes the other man is still married, and in the same house with his wife. His wife has no job and cant afford a lawyer.

No,she got basically nothing in the divorce. We have a house in the country that we built together, She basically packed her bags and left. She did get the boat, but no house, no child support, and no alimony. But i am really struggling to make the note on my own.