When I called him and told him to come over, that I knew all about paris etc etc he said I was nuts. When I mentioned her name, he said "for Christs name, you are stuck on that woman arent you", when I told him details, he shut up.
Later he said he left the account open. The PC was off. My kids turned it off. But the account he logged on was his official one, with only 2 emails re work from her (remember she was a friend, they were still in touch) and her account from which he had logged off. From her account using the password I had, I found she sent many emails to a guy with an unknown name, but when I opened the emails, it was his name, my name, our kids names. I then hacked that secret account with the 2 secret question I knew the answers for (name of his parents house street etc etc) and that's where I found pics, details, emails, the whole story... No, he didnt want me to know. He would at least had erased the bed pictures and the emails about sucking each other's...
My kids took a picture and wanted to sent it to him, I still say "daddy" etc etc but it is hard. I wrote "from the kids" and sent it.
"I dont know what to say, only I am sorry. I cant change the past. I am glad to see my kids smiling and thank you because you are the only one responsible for their smiles"
That's the answer I got, I replied : you were busy tearing them apart over and over again, just 'like you did your GF" and dont be gracious to me now, it's cheap to do after you got caught and were humiliated"
