She told me on Dec 30,2008 that she wanted out. I thought we had a good marriage, we have two boys 11 and 8 they both raced go-karts. She started having a lot of meetings about the track at our house. I did notice the track manager was around more than anyone else. We had a big race Dec 28. He went and helped her dad with my boys as i had to work. On the way home is when she told me she wanted a divorce. We also had a boat and motorhome. we were together as a family always. When she told me about wanting this she told me it was all my fault. did not feel loved, not enough attention. And i took a lot of the responsibility. Now I find out this week that she has an affair that was going on before christmas. They have kept it quiet, but i made sure everyone knows now, found all this info from his wife who is in the same house. I made her tell the kids that she was dating him.
