Divorced what to do now

[MrBond]

Well that's what you need to do then. You can't control how she's going to feel about you.

My suggestion would be to leave her alone and literally drop off the map. Don't talk to her, keep conversation with her short and end them first, and act as if you have better things to think about than her.

Can you flesh out your story? How long ago did she want D? If you lay out a more extensive marital history, we can help you with a strategy.