Once again your day ends and mine is just starting.
I too have been told the same thing, H is seen as a you know what idiot and I am the saint which is true, but I too want my M to work even if H doesn't and everyone around me thinks I shouldn't and that I need to forget and move on.
I too am confused and go to bed each night hoping to wake up and it will have been a dream.
I think it is easy to lose sight of the our goal with so many other influences around us that make us question what we are trying to achieve.
As everyone has said to me Mac friends are for support only and unless they have first hand experience cannot really offer advice or know how you feel or understand what you are trying to do.
Don't analyse it just take the comment and remember to keep looking after you.