If I didn't think that would absolutely descimate my S, I would be happier if she moved out. It's a head game every day. "Let's pretend everything is fine today...play house like a happy family." Followed by "I'm done and filing tomorrow." Followed by "Let's pretend like everything is fine," again.

She still cares enough about S to not have put it through it so far, but she's been working really hard to rationalize doing it anyway.

I don't question that she's been hurt. I just didn't know it at the time. She never told me and I didn't pick up on "signals."

There's another line from the script:

"I know I didn't TELL you what was wrong. I shouldn't have had to TELL you what was wrong!.. I made it obvious!!"

Me: 35
W: 31
S:9
M: 10 years
Together 13
MySitch - Ups & Downs
She moved out the day before Thanksgiving 2009, over 13 months post-bomb.