Guys, thanks for the honest feedback. Didn't come off too strong, I'm asking for input.

I guess my thinking has been - W has what you might call abandonment issues. Last time we went through this, one of the things that she responded to most was that I never wavered. If she feels for the last months I've neglected her, didn't respond to her emotional needs, it seemed to me this was a 180.

Well you've given me a lot to think about.