Again, just my opinion here, but why are you offering to do her work for her? She wants the D?....Let her get the papers notarized.
If we both fill out and sign the financial agreement (and a few other forms), we don't have to go to court. I have to fill out my part of the form, then we both have to get our signatures notarized. So I can fill out the form, get it notarized and fax/email it to her ... or ... we have to meet and get it notarized together. She wants this done by email, "so I don't have to drive all the way back here." It is very thoughtful of her. There's nothing in there that we disagree about or that I want. We've already divided up the stuff.
The no contact thing I haven't understood from the beginning. It's been like this since the met the OM. I know it is guilt on her part. The last time I spoke with her I said something to the tune of, are we just going to not talk to each other ever again? She replied that she would leave that up to me. So I tried to talk to her ... and nada. As usual, there is what she says and what she does and those two things just don't match up. I don't really need to know why. Even if she COULD tell me, I'm not gonna like the answer.
I rarely have dreams about her, which is good. Saturday night, however, it was the W show ... 3 dreams in a row. Stupid subconscious.
There's nothing in there that we disagree about or that I want. We've already divided up the stuff.
