So... I was thinking about going home tonight and telling her that I am quitting my job...

Can you imagine the justifications I could come up with?

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It's time to "take care of me," and "I'm not fulfilled" with this job. "I don't care how it affects anyone else. I deserve to be selfish."

No job = no $$ = no food? Well "we'll adjust. Our S will adjust."

Lose our house? "I need to go a new direction" anyway.

"I shouldn't have to stay (in my job), I've never been truly happy there anyway."

"I can't be responsible for taking care of everyone else anymore."

What? You're supportive of me quitting my job? Then, "you're just trying to make me feel guilty!"

"I don't want the responsibility," of a job. I want to play and act like I am 19 again!

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I know my marriage isn't a job, but I 'd kind of sound like a deadbeat if I used these lines huh?

Me: 35
W: 31
S:9
M: 10 years
Together 13
MySitch - Ups & Downs
She moved out the day before Thanksgiving 2009, over 13 months post-bomb.