Hey Doodles, guys are weird and it sucks. My new guy had fallen off and I really still wonder why. Yesterday after posting to you and wondering why all of a sudden new guy fell off, a thought occurred to me, did my H call new guy. One day for security purpose I had left a postit with new guy's info when i was going on a date. Talk about anti-DB, I actually called my H yesterday and asked him if he did that. Of course he wasn't happy to get that call since he thinks I was so into new guy but whatever. So I'm with you, no clue why they disappear. Sometimes I wonder if its us being accustomed to long R that we just expect more communication. Then I get so upset at times that H has brought me to having to get into the dating scene. Anyway, just wanted I completely understand.