I wonder if he DID "let" you find that information. If it was the only way he could see to end the cycle of lies he's been living for so long.
Strangely, they often do this when they want the affair to end, not the marriage.
Now you have proof of what you've always "known" and he never had to find the words to tell you. You know what you were fighting for so long. Clarity and justification for any actions you've contemplated regarding the demise of your marriage. Almost a gift in a sick kind of way.....
