Try it once. Try it with all of your strength. See what happens. The next time she tries to pull you into a fight, look at her with sympathy and validate and walk away. Be nice. Kill it with kindness....you'll be shocked.

M-34/H-35/S-4
Bomb-11-08
OW confirmed 12-08-OW ends 6-09
D finalized 4-10
Stronger=Happy