Ya think! Getting canned from having someone smell alcohol on your breath is the last thing he needs.
All you do is what you have been doing. Dig deep and LET GO and LET GOD!!!
Times like these is when you really find out what you're made of.
Man up for your boys!!!
Dont let this wayward soul jade your life. She obviously has more issues to deal with then you knew about. Hopefully, like you she will choose to do the WORK someday before it's too late. That's NOT just about YOU either, but about what's best for the boys and her family.
This is when your true feelings of LOVE and FRIENDSHIP will be tested. What caused her to be able to do this? What kind of pain did she feel? Who could she turn to? Is there NO EXCUSES for this behavior? I struggled and still struggle with these thoughts everyday. I wasn't there when my X got abused as a child or raped in college. I never experienced that type of pain or loss of control until now. How do we handle these feelings of hurt and pain?
ANSWER: Dont become judge and jury. Give it up to God. If not you will eventually be sorry.
Good luck my friend. You have just started your journey.
