I just call him the little guy (who incidentally turned 13) on this forum. I would love to treat him with respect, however, I think he should earn it (a little). As far as treating him like a baby, I can get you NGF's phone number if you like!
The week away may make him realizea few things. As you may recall he was threatening to move in with his dad for the next 4 weeks. That may also do him some good as he will have a male figure around.
