What has worked for me/Update wife said she done

[whereami]

Which part? The part that I'm no expert when it comes to saving marriages. LOL

Puppy, you are an asset to this site, and when I was reffering to others that could give better advice, you are one of them. You have already saved your marriage, and don't need to be here, but you and a few others choose to stick around and help others.

I'm sure it has been said many times before, but thanks for doing what you do.