Well today we go to MC. She is still dead set on Divorce, but for some reason I feel that I am getting through to her. The part that confuses me the most is the fact that she tells all her family that she has had enough of me and wants a divorce yet, when we talk she sends signals that she refers to as false hope. Her entire family is telling her not to do this. She talks to the divorced women in her family and even they tell her its not a good idea. She even asked my father's ex wife about this and she basically told her the same thing. Her divorce from my father was brutal and it only hurt the kids. She told her that if the love is still there all you have to do is work on the communication. I feel the love is still there, but it seems her head is winning the battle over her heart. Are WAWs afraid that they will get hurt again? I don't understand why it is so easy for them to just give up on the marriage if they don't have the tools to communicate their own hurt. I know i was hurting and i know she was hurting, but her hurt was much more disguised than mine. 11 years is enough? Enough of what? 11 years of trying to make it work? I do not think so...i think she is re writing history there to fit her story. One more interesting note. She said that she decided on Father's day of this year that it was over. Has she been planning her escape? Or did the events that transpired that day just put her in a very angry place?
