You sound like you're in a pretty good place right now, mentally. Keep working on yourself, get stronger and wiser...and let time pass. It's a healer! I'm glad you're detatching...good for you! Hard to imagine that one can detatch while still loving, cherishing, and caring unconditionally for one's spouse...but one can! I appreciate you stopping by GIMA. Thanks.


"Always go straight forward, and if you meet the devil, cut him in two and go between the pieces." - William Sturgis, clipper ship captain, 1830's.