LOL!! Don't know if I installed the filter as much as I've decided to truly walk away from some issues. OW being the main one. It helps that contact between the two of them has ceased outside of work. But I'm still expecting there to be some more calls as she gets ready to leave town. I'm just deciding to be ok with it. He is making efforts toward us, and that's what I've wanted for a long time. I'm also trying to come to terms with this not being done in my timeframe. It helps that he has his own place. I actually feel relaxed and OK when he's not at our place. S and I play and clean and do whatever and it's my time, even with S there.
Detaching is probably harder to me than pregnancy and child birth. How about that for a statement?
