JCJ – it’s building stuff round the house, going up ladders (I’m too scared).

Last time I asked him by email and I’ve just re read it and it probably did seem to him to be too pushy, didn’t even get a reply to that one. That time I got it done and paid someone. If I phoned it would put him on the defensive I’m trying not to do that. Still at the rebuilding friendship stage.

I think it might be better to get on with it on my own, I’m sure he knows what needs to be done, if he offers I will of course accept.

Unfortunately his ego is pretty big enough already, OW plays the simpering little woman card and he’s being doing work round her house for months. So basically he’s paying for someone else to do up his house whilst doing up someone else’s for free – so who’s the mug?


married 23 years
4 grown up kids