My W has always been a woman who had it all together. The youngest of 7, she kept the large family together. WHenever something happens in her family, they all call her for info. She has the entire family as a group in her email so she can update everyone on everything. She was always very responsible.
O, mine too. Just letting you know it isn't unusual, so you shouldn't attach a lot of significance to your W's prior proclivity for responsibility. It really has nothing to do with her current state of mind.
