So last night H and I had a great night. It was our romantic night. S was great and left us alone by going to bed early. It was fun.
One of his complaints is that I "stopped being fun". And with a lot of thought into it, he's right. I did stop being fun. So I "spiced" things up last night and I'm not sure "fun" is the right word, but we'll use it.
I think H also wants me to go out and party some more. I am not going to do that. I'll go out and have a good time on the few occasions I feel like it. That's not a change I'm willing to make. I like my pace of partying, which admittedly is very slow. I have a drink maybe once a month. I get drunk maybe once every three months or so. It's just not a big thing in my life that I feel the need to do often. So, he can just deal with that and I think he's ok with it. I like to go out, but getting drunk is not part of the process for me. Plus I have a job that if I got a DUI or was with someone who did, I will def. be fired. Can't risk that either.
So, we are up to 6 days of not only NOT fighting, but even having fun when we are together. Being away for the weekend helped a lot....went a long way for both of us.
I signed up for my first tennis tournament, August 20-23. Should be fun and humbling! But really looking forward to it.
