My W has always been a woman who had it all together. The youngest of 7, she kept the large family together. WHenever something happens in her family, they all call her for info. She has the entire family as a group in her email so she can update everyone on everything. She was always very responsible. I guess what you are saying is right. The emotion is screwing with the logical. When you realize this, it makes it hard not to want to go in there and try and help her fix it, but this one she needs to fix on her own. It is actually kinda sad. I notice that you sometimes post that you try to see things from her POV. I have been trying to do that lately, and when I look at the past through her eyes, I am not too happy with what I see. Sometimes I forget exactly why it is I'm fighting, seeing only the fight.
Me-40 W-41 Together-10 M-8 S-6 S-4 Bomb 5/08 Bomb 10/08 Thought things were better, was wrong. Still living together Wife doesn't think she will ever love me again.
