What's up with these women? Are they ashamed of what they are doing? It's true, they don't think anyone will notice when we are living in different houses?
Wouldn't YOU be -- esp. with people at CHURCH???
Orich, I know this is difficult, but you need to have more empathy for what she is feeling in this regard. Our goal as betrayed spouses is to always try to convey BOUNDARIES, and upholding HOLINESS (for those so inclined), without in any way conveying SHAME.
Your wife needs to know that maybe she felt shame when she was WAYWARD, but if she comes back and WORKS on this with you, that anyone who has anything to say about it will have to GO THRU YOU!
