In all seriousness, I have gained good insight (again from my former WAW cousin).
They are ruled completely by emotion that they do not even understand themselves at this point. My W has even admitted that there is no logical reason why we are where we are and why she can't see us every being happy together. Just raw emotion.
That's why mindreading is pointless and so is trying to reason with them. Sad...my wife has always been a pretty smart girl too.
Me: 35 W: 31 S:9 M: 10 years Together 13 MySitch - Ups & Downs She moved out the day before Thanksgiving 2009, over 13 months post-bomb.
