Thanks for the help. I do know all about puppy and gucci and I am deciding what to do about this as I type. I am leaning towards a confrontation but I want to be in control so I need to plan it. I dont want to get caught up in her BS when confronting her. I have a DB phone coach appointment in 2 hours because I want to see what they have to say first. I HAVE worked on myself. I dont want you to think that I am still a worthless pile of dispair. I went to a concert by myself on friday-first time in my life. HUge 180 for me.


Me 35
Wife 34
Two daughters 8 years and 3 years
Bomb 3/30/09
W filed 4/16/09
We met in'92 married in 2000
Divorce final