I've gotten a lot better at not calling, leaving it alone (recent weekend aside), etc...

My damn impatience has gotten to me though. It seemed like we were drifting further apart. I wanted to send her little funny texts...try to be her friend. She REALLY doesn't want me to be her friend right now though. She just wants to be left alone.

Odd. She's talked about feeling lonely. She's locked herself in our extra bedroom ("her" room now) and complained about being lonely!...when our son and I were right downstairs.

Her friend has told her that she creates her own problems. I sucks to be where I(most of us on this site) are, but honestly I would imagine that it would suck more to be in her shoes.

Me: 35
W: 31
S:9
M: 10 years
Together 13
MySitch - Ups & Downs
She moved out the day before Thanksgiving 2009, over 13 months post-bomb.