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the rest you have to GAL and develop a PMA do not let yourself fall into a self pitying hole that's so not attractive

Fully agreed, I spent waaaayyy too much time that way, and not only is it unattractive, it's very self destructive.

Also agreed, you can no longer dwell on what was, it's exactly that, was. You have to look at now, as much of a mess as it may be and find the positives, if you don't, the mess will only get worse, trust me.