Funny thing...I don't think that my W talks to anyone about it. Even her closest friend, who she sees EVERY day, has 5 or 6 phone calls with and texts at least 20 x's per day asks me when I see her. "How are things going?" I say "What? How do you not know how things are going? You talk to my W constantly."
The friend tells me that they don't talk about our R, and if it's brought up the W generally says "we're working on it." or "I'm still not happy there" but doesn't say much more about it.