back after 10 weeks of recovery and need some help

[Doingitright]

Steady thanks. The detachment is coming slower than the first go around a few months ago. But it is coming. I am reading the detachment thread again to try and suck it into my brain. It is just so damn hard with the kids. When I ask them if they want to do something they always ask if mom is coming. If not they ask her or are disappointed. It breaks my heart and brings me to tears. But I have to be strong.

Now I have to vent. Wife confronted me with a sitch last night. Said she was approached by her girl friend about us sleeping in different beds. I had spoken to her husband in confidence and he let is slip. W said I really put her in a bad situation. I said sorry it was not my intention.

Now today she sends an email apologizing for scolding me on the friend discussion and is happy I have a good friend to talk to. She said she threw the dagger at me in defense and she was sorry. And that this all will take time to work at. And then asked how my new pants fit and look and to have a nice day. Good gracious..what planet am I on. First of all a sorry from her then asking how something looks and then have a nice day. None of that heard in the last month let alone in a single email.

Anyway that is my vent. I am reading the detach thread and hope to soak up the wisdom as fast as I can.