Don't know if this is a common occurrence with WAS's, but I had a similar experience. W was upset that I had confided in a couple of very close firends of "ours" who had gone through D's. According to W, she only told her mother, and then only just before she told me.
I'm not sure what the WAS is thinking, and I would imagine they don't either. You just have to accept that logic and reason don't factor into it for them b/c most/all of what is fueling them is emotions/feelings.
It doesn't make sense. It just IS.
Funny thing...I don't think that my W talks to anyone about it. Even her closest friend, who she sees EVERY day, has 5 or 6 phone calls with and texts at least 20 x's per day asks me when I see her. "How are things going?" I say "What? How do you not know how things are going? You talk to my W constantly."
The friend tells me that they don't talk about our R, and if it's brought up the W generally says "we're working on it." or "I'm still not happy there" but doesn't say much more about it.
Me: 35 W: 31 S:9 M: 10 years Together 13 MySitch - Ups & Downs She moved out the day before Thanksgiving 2009, over 13 months post-bomb.
