(((Michelle))) I wish I'd listened to my intuition re ow! Sometimes it is waaay off though, like the instinct to pursue. That force is strong in me
(((GAG))) Welcome! How lovely to have you read along and thank you for your thoughtful and helpful post. I feel honoured by your kind words
Thank you so much for sharing your experience, it has helped because in my head I had a time frame of about a week in which to experiment. I now realise I need to give this longer to work and I need to do this properly. It is hard and scary because I seem to suffer with separation anxiety with h, which leads to feeling down, so I need to prepare myself that this may happen again and work hard on keeping up that PMA.
Jody is my DB coach too and is fantastic. It is so great talking to her and what she says always makes so much sense and is usually an aspect of things I had not considered. And I will keep in mind your reassurance that I can always fall back into my safety zone of email again.
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Interestingly, after 4 weeks, H began replying very quickly (within 20-60 minutes) to my e-mails and text messages.
Does this mean that you did initiate some, or was this just a response to him?
It is so helpful to hear your experience! Thank you for posting.
(((T))) My cello playing friend! That's so funny you signed your emails Transformer lol! How is your summer going? Your support means so much. I love coming to my thread and seeing that you have visited. One day our cello/ recorder groove will happen!
(((Ms M))) I was wondering how you've been. I wonder what it is about our voices that are so scary? Who knows! The one time my h did call me he was so apologetic!
(((Bonny))) Unfortunately he is already living with OW. They rent a place together. My thing is that I reckon he is going to buy somewhere. That would be really annoying. He is spontaneous and does things without considering the consequences. He does things because it is right there and now. I am kind of relying on the fact that he constantly has to be changing something and can't just be settled. If he stops it'll mean he has to take a look at himself. I don't see him buying somewhere as a sign of permanence as I know him but it would be irritating.
(((Cas))) Thank you Sending over a virtual cup of tea and a biscuit and hoping you are feeling better!
