Every time that I think I know what's going on in a WAW's head, something comes up that stumps me further.
I have run into a very similar situation...got "talked to" for discussing our situation with someone. W asked me not to discuss with a neighbor/friend. At the time it struck me as odd because W was adamant that she was leaving/filing. I asked her "don't you think they will notice when you don't live here anymore?" I mean how do they think it will be a secret?
Do you think that if they don't want people to know, there may still be a little hope that things will work out? I mean if it works out, they don't want everyone to know what we went through. If they thought 100% for sure it will not work, they would have to realize that everyone will know anyway.
Me: 35 W: 31 S:9 M: 10 years Together 13 MySitch - Ups & Downs She moved out the day before Thanksgiving 2009, over 13 months post-bomb.
