Reading these reminds me of others...

*I've never really been happy in our marriage;

*I've been unhappy for a long time now;

*My feelings will NEVER change; it's too late.
(BTW, don't believe this one. My H was certain, and we've reconciled and are doing pretty well...coming up to our 10th anniversary this week!)

SD

Me: 40
H: 43
H had EA from 2/06-9/06
Bomb 5/06
Piecing since 9/2006
3/2008: Boundary setting
7/2009: Boundary crossing~dropped my own bomb.
8/2010: Marriage finally on track!