Ok I've decided to start my own thread because we do need girls place, although the guys are always welcome too.
So the scoop. As I posted to FG, finally told H this living situation needs to be rethought. So far, nothing from him. I really don't expect him to do anything either way, so his moving or not is not a big surprise. Right now I am choosing to be silent with him. Of course this has never lasted long in the past because I always end up talking to him because he plays the Mr. Nice Guy, that I dumbly can't resist. Since I was 17 I have been unable to resist his charm. One of the really wonderful traits he learned from his family, how to charm and manipulate people. So I am anticipating feeling like a giddy sixteen year old girl again soon.
Ok this stupid screen is bouncingall over the p-lace so I'm done.
"Acceptance doesn't mean resignation. It means understanding that something is what it is and there's got to be a way through it."--Michael J. Fox