Hi ScifiGirl, (love that name, I am a scifi nerd myself) I think she is upset that others know what is going on. I didn't want anyone else to know, either. This deacon is a friend of both of ours, and we both like him a very great deal. In fact, that is why I was able to open up to him so easily. Maybe she just didn't like that I was doing it behind her back, so to speak. I'm not sure. I do think that she especially doesn't want anyone from church to know. We are heavily involved in our parish, maybe she feels like a failure to them.
Me-40 W-41 Together-10 M-8 S-6 S-4 Bomb 5/08 Bomb 10/08 Thought things were better, was wrong. Still living together Wife doesn't think she will ever love me again.
