Harpo.
It's time to stop. It's time to detach and work on you and your kids. You can NOT control her. So the best way to bring about a change in her, is to change yourself.

Work on you. Work on the kids. Get out of your head.

M-34/H-35/S-4
Bomb-11-08
OW confirmed 12-08-OW ends 6-09
D finalized 4-10
Stronger=Happy