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mac-ct #1816840 08/11/09 11:17 AM
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"It's not your fault, you're a good guy and a good H"

"I tell everybody at work what a great H you are, you'd give the shirt off your back for any of us"

"I have a hole inside me I haven't been able to fill"

How about this one: "I started gamling so you would catch me and get so mad you would divorce me"...what a surprise to her when I didn't!


Me45 (D11 from 1st marriage)
W43 (D20 & D16 from 1st marriage)
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W moved out 8/29/09
I sent her D paperwork 9/25/09...I'm done
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Originally Posted By: goingtofixME


I left because if I didn't I was going to kill myself. (GUILT MUCH?)





^^^forgot about that one and ^

"one day you will see i did this because i love you"


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"why are you being so stubborn"
when asked to move out and on and I replied I dont want a divorce???


M - 45 1st marriage H - 45 2nd M -T - 14 yrs M - 13 yrs
S - due to job location since 1/08
B - 7/6/2009 EA revealed -9/3/2009 began 6/09 E/A end 9/09
piercing: since 10/09 long distance
MaryEL #1816894 08/11/09 01:25 PM
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I don't want to be miserable for another 10 years.
I'm tired of hurting you.

what if Edison gave up,or the Wright Brothers or Ben & Jerry's
we would be flying in the dark looking for ice cream.(arrrrgghhh)


H 49
W 42
S 19
S 14
S 12
S 8
D 6
M 19
Bomb dropped 2/09
Separated 5/09
still hopeful, praying
harpo #1816900 08/11/09 01:30 PM
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Reading these reminds me of others...

*I've never really been happy in our marriage;

*I've been unhappy for a long time now;

*My feelings will NEVER change; it's too late.
(BTW, don't believe this one. My H was certain, and we've reconciled and are doing pretty well...coming up to our 10th anniversary this week!)

SD


Me: 40
H: 43
H had EA from 2/06-9/06
Bomb 5/06
Piecing since 9/2006
3/2008: Boundary setting
7/2009: Boundary crossing~dropped my own bomb.
8/2010: Marriage finally on track!
SDFoundGirl #1816905 08/11/09 01:36 PM
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My favorite:

"I hope we can be friends...I may need you help me screw something on the wall in my apartment"


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W43 (D20 & D16 from 1st marriage)
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Bomb 6/16/09 W wants D
W moved out 8/29/09
I sent her D paperwork 9/25/09...I'm done
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Quote:
*My feelings will NEVER change; it's too late.
(BTW, don't believe this one. My H was certain, and we've reconciled and are doing pretty well...coming up to our 10th anniversary this week!)


I second this one. I think they learn this one the first day of WAS school.

Another one:

"I haven't just had bad months...I've had bad years..."


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harpo #1816936 08/11/09 02:19 PM
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Originally Posted By: harpo

what if Edison gave up,or the Wright Brothers or Ben & Jerry's
we would be flying in the dark looking for ice cream.(arrrrgghhh)


That would be funny if it wasn't so hurtful.

Could this one be any colder "I still care deeply about you!"


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C-Bart #1817011 08/11/09 03:26 PM
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I’ve got a whole in my chest that I had the day I got married and it’s got bigger and emptier until I can no longer stand it.

I need love in my life and you’re not capable for giving me what I need.

Nice eh?


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bonnyh #1817012 08/11/09 03:27 PM
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Wow. I've got a hole in my chest just reading your post.


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