Thanks so much Mac. I don't know what's wrong with me at the moment. I feel so teary and emotional. Think it's post surgery blues. I could cry a bucket load of tears for no real reason. I've been like this for a couple of days-feeling teary but not actually crying.

It hurts that H barely even bothers to ask how I am. He asks but the way he asks you feel as though you should answer good or fine with no further explanation and he doesn't ask for any further info either. He's not callous, but just self absorbed. As I said, he opened the car door for me and helped me get in and out the car and gave me his jacket to protect me from the seat belt. In that way he was very caring.

I guess the fact that he was going from here to ow place didn't help either.

Thanks Mac. I am going to take your advice and not make contact and see what happens.

Cas