I stuffed up tonight. H came over to take D and I to a school meeting. He came into the house, sat on the couch to wait and basically ignored me. I kept telling myself to be grateful he was driving us to the meeting. He dropped us at the meeting (which of course he too ideally should have attended.)
He picked us up 25 minutes late. No apologies, no comment. Normally it wouldn't be so bad but of course I'm not really up to standing too long and shouldn't be out in the cold either. He did get out of the car to help me at each end of the journey.
I had sent him an email re S yesterday and I asked if he had responded. I got a mouth full about how busy he is and unfortunately I wasn't too kind in response. Oops Now Ill be given the silent treatment. I am so sick of playing this game where I have to behave perfectly and he can do what he likes!
Feel free to belt me one. What to do now? Do I leave it or initiate an apology? A 180 would be to do nothing. I always fix things cos I hate the tension between us. What do you think?
